Tuesday, November 13, 2012

The General's Lover

The wonderful thing about a DVR connected to the TV is, once a program is copied, you can skip through what you don’t want to view…truly lovely.  Dodging commercials alone is worth the cost of the unit.  If I could only dodge pharmaceutical commercials it would still be worth it.  It also allows me to skip through parts of news or commentary programming I find less meaningful or redundant.  As it happens, with me being a bit of a news junkie and using the DVR accordingly, I have found myself fast forwarding through such programs so often over the past few days that I have stop watching the news at all. That’s probably a good thing.  However, the reason behind this motivation is fascinating and worthy of reflection.

After the historic re-election of Barack Obama, and I believe it will be viewed as having more historical importance than most Presidential elections (including Obama’s first), there was much for the news media to consider, things that have major importance to nearly every person in the country, whether they know or care about it at all.  Instead there has been virtually days spent reporting on General/Director David Petraeus’ affair with his young biographer and how the knowledge of that affair found its way into the public and political domain.  My point is that there is not a dearth of things to talk about and yet the discussion and analysis of this event, which in its most basic form is simply the resignation of a Federal agency’s director, dominates air time.  There are territorial fights and pissing contests over who should have known what and when. So far there has not been any suggestion of a breach of national security. Considering the FBI has had months to uncover such, it leads one to surmise none will be found.  So what warrants this story transcending ordinary news about a fall from grace?  Quite possible the answer to that is nothing.  Rather, it is more likely to be characteristic of our age and a new formula that mixes human behavior, media ratings, and, of course, cyberspace.

Petraeus’ infidelity has real and honest consequences to himself and his family.  It is not a rare behavior, but the meaning of it falls exclusively within the realm of his personal life.  No one outside that circle can know how judgment might or should be applied - speculate as they might.  So what is it that currently generates a seemingly endless commentary?  Was this always the case?  Hardly.

I am quite willing to make the leap, without statistical evidence, that Petraeus’ affair happens plenty often in the rarefied air of political hierarchy, just as it does with the wealthy movers and shakers in the private sector.  When Bill Clinton was asked why he had sexual relations with Monica Lewinski he simply and profoundly answered “because I could”.  When it comes to older, powerful (often wealthy) men having sexual affairs with attractive younger women it’s hard to find a more compelling enabler.  None of this is new, but the times have definitely changed.

Certainly as late as the Presidency of John Kennedy, the clandestine sexual trysts of powerful politicians were not considered relevant to their governance.  This attitude was not only held by the participating bureaucrat and his aides, but also by his rivals and the media.  How Kennedy’s affairs were handled by those around him and the media is astounding in light of how such is handled today.  Franklin Roosevelt managed to partake in a wheelchair for god sakes. Even Eisenhower, beloved Ike, as General and Commander of Allied Forces (and perhaps later) could dally about without scrutiny.  Fast forward to Bill Clinton whose few very un-romantic, back hallway encounters nearly brought down the entire Federal Government. This is the world David Petraeus chose to carry out his age old rite of the elites.

The Theocons (faith based Conservatives) of this age relish in expanding their ethical judgments, regarding sex in particular, to the general public, attempting to identify such behavior as the kind of deprivation which is everything they’re not.  The popular media runs with it because they believe the general public’s appetite for scandal is insatiable and profits are just way too important.  Add to that the new reality that these powerful dabblers are not smart enough to realize that email sent across cyberspace is about as secure as their zippers and provide an accounting of their activities in (duh) written form.  All the conspiracies and politicking that surrounds these circus events are just bad noise.

I liked it better the old way.  Let these men (and sometimes women) be judged by the policies they promote and enact.  If their behavior calls for them to impale themselves, let that lance be held by their spouses.  I’m just glad I’ve got a DVR.